
Interview below excerpted from Firstwriter.com:
Author Melanie Votaw Shares “52 Weeks of Passionate Sex”
By Sara Webb Quest
Melanie Votaw has put passionate expertise to print via her book "52 Weeks of Passionate Sex." The book comes from The Sinclair Intimacy Institute -- home of best-selling, sex education videos -- and is already in its second printing!
SQ: Melanie, thank you very much for this opportunity to share your story. What inspired you to create this book?
MV: I was actually asked to write it by my editor at Running Press. Running Press took their raw idea to the Sinclair Intimacy Institute, and they signed on to it. Then, Running Press found me to write it. Even though Sinclair has co-authorship, they contributed very little to the manuscript and gave me almost carte blanche.
SQ: What is the book’s basic premise?
MV: The book is primarily for couples who need ways to keep the spark alive when time is of the essence. So many couples complain that between work, kids, and other obligations, they don’t have time for each other. So, my goal was to create something fun that would allow them to re-connect romantically and sexually. Some of the ideas in the book can be accomplished quickly and with minimal effort and time. Other ideas in the book are for longer, luxurious times together. There are suggestions for every type of couple – the ones who just want to try something a little bit new, as well as those who want to push the envelope. But, essentially, the book’s premise is that a tired sex life should be an oxymoron!
SQ: At Amazon.com a customer describes your book as “bright, sensual, and funny.” The Book Description states it contains “52 quick and fun ideas, tips, and techniques for busy couples, plus a dozen suggestions for more leisurely approaches to lovemaking -- each designed to inspire tremendous sensual creativity.” What has been the overall reader reaction?
MV: I haven’t had a chance to do readings and meet that many of the readers yet, unfortunately. However, the book sold out its first printing to the stores within a week of release, and I understand from friends that many bookstores are sold out already. So, if that’s any indication, it must be hitting home with people. I think the fact that it’s a kit distinguishes it from the other sex books out there, and the low price sets it apart from the other kits on the market. The second printing should be ready in early June.
SQ: How long did it take you to write this book and did you hire an editor?
MV: No, I didn’t have to hire an editor because I had an editor at Running Press. I’m pleased to say that she didn’t alter the original manuscript very much at all. I spent 2-1/2 months writing the text to “52 Weeks” and then spent a bit more time writing four of the erotic stories that are in “The Erotica Reader” contained in the kit.
SQ: What credentials were needed for Running Press to accept it for publication?
MV: I believe Deborah Grandinetti, the editor at Running Press, came to me because she knows I have a very positive attitude toward sex and an ability to write about it in a fun and titillating way. Additionally, I had written erotic poetry and fiction, and I take my obligation to my readers very seriously. Deborah knew that I would be dedicated to giving the readers something positive, fun, and educational. This was in keeping with her vision, as well as that of the Sinclair Intimacy Institute.
SQ: Do you have other publications in the works? If so, please share descriptions!
MV: There’s another book with Running Press and The Sinclair Intimacy Institute that I will begin later in the year. My editor tells me Sinclair is very excited to have me write another book with them. I don’t know if I’m at liberty to discuss the details. I have written a tarot deck and have begun a book for creative people. I won’t get any more specific than that since they aren’t completed. Otherwise, I’m working on tons of magazine article ideas and have an idea for a children’s story that I’m dying to find the time to start. Despite writing the very adult book that we’re discussing here, I love children and spend a lot of time with them. So, I think I would be able to do some really fun stories for them.
SQ: Is there an author that influences your writing? If so, who?
MV: Since I’ve written on so many subjects and am an extensively published poet, there are different influences in different areas. As far as non-fiction, I can’t say I’m influenced by anyone in particular. Writers on sexuality would include David Steinberg and Susie Bright. When it comes to poetry, I’m tremendously influenced by David Whyte, Galway Kinnell, Sharon Olds, Mary Oliver, and
Rumi.
SQ: Would you consider yourself a successful author / writer? Why or why not?
MV: I feel successful when I finish a project that I’m proud of, but in terms of my career goals, I have a long way to go. Things are happening, though, and I’m excited about the possibilities.
SQ: Thank you Melanie, for sharing your inspiring story with
Firstwriter.com.
MV: Thank you, Sara, for spending this time with me!
